Every healthy man gets excited several times faster than a woman. For most, a quick glance at a naked body is enough for an erection and subsequent intercourse. Others need reinforcement in the form of tactile stimulation - these are people with a kinesthetic type of perception of information from the outside. They need to touch everything, feel it physically in order to process it with their brain and accept it. If your partner likes touch and is more turned on by it, then he belongs to this group. Of course, guys with an increased need for touch will not refuse the sight of a beautiful girl, but your arsenal should include stimulating techniques with your hands and other parts of the body!
It is a mistaken belief that only half of a woman needs foreplay. Men also love affection and have no problem extending the pleasure they receive to relax physically and psychologically. And there are no fewer erogenous points on a strong torso than those of beautiful girls. For a quality erotic session, you will need knowledge of sensitive areas, so let's enrich our suitcases with seductive techniques together. Today we will learn how to excite a man with our hands and learn how to press all the "red buttons"!
Erogenous points in men, caress them correctly
Erogenous zones are those areas of the skin that are most sensitive to touch and impact. Their caresses help increase arousal and erection. Over time, you will learn to identify not only the general male erogenous zones, but also the individual ones for each individual boy, which gives you power over the stronger sex. A man just goes crazy when a girl caresses him as if she is reading his innermost thoughts at that moment! Let's move on to practical exercises.
Head and face
You should not think that all sensitive areas are concentrated in the area of the penis and scrotum. Most men enjoy having women's hands run through their hair. No less pleasant is such tenderness as touching the back of the hand on the cheeks, eyebrows and chin. Comb his hair with your fingers spread wide so that the hair falls between them and the ends pass over his face. You can complete the action with soft kisses on the earlobe. What bothers me most is not the fact of the lips touching, but the warm breath, which is perceived very sharply.
The neck
This part of the body in men is ideal for arousing passion with the hands. The most sensitive area is the strip of skin from the earlobes to the middle of the shoulder. Move your fingertips up and down and follow with kisses. You can use tongue stroking if your partner responds positively to such stimuli.
The line from the beginning of hair growth to the interscapular area is dirty. Hot rides start from here, signaling that soon the lady will come down and have a "bounty". . . Gently walk over it with the edge of your palm or fingers. Most likely, your body will be covered with bumps. Repeat.
BACK
On the other hand, in order to properly excite a man with your own hands, you need to touch several points:
- between the shoulder blades
- above the shoulder blades, closer to the shoulder area,
- 3-5 cm below the interscapular area,
- on both sides of the coccyx + coccyx itself.
You can caress these "accumulators" of libido with your fingertips, hair, and some girls know how to effectively influence them with their breasts. Men are very turned on by touching women's nipples on the back.
For many guys, hugging from behind is an incredibly attractive gesture, especially in the case of a completely naked female body.
If everything is in order with the vegetation in your intimate area, you can use a completely open provocation - to stroke the sacral back (tail area) with your pussy. Just keep in mind that in a few seconds the boy will not be able to restrain his desires, so the seduction with secret techniques will end there. Your only option is to tie or handcuff him.
By the way, a stationary and blindfolded partner focuses more on tactile stimuli, and therefore experiences more acute sensations. Consider this idea!
Bust
In the front of the body, the most sensual points that respond instantly to caresses are the nipples and the hairy part of the abdomen, leading to the peak of male majesty. Please note that men have slightly different nipple sensitivity than girls, so you should not pull them with the same intensity. There are individuals for whom such stimuli will be unpleasant, therefore, dear tigresses and panthers, we snort and listen to the wishes of our seduced object. Many people like it when a girl runs her palms over her chest and stomach while sitting on top.
Shoulders and arms
The shoulders themselves are not an erogenous zone, but a light massage of the central part will help to ensure a smooth transition from one part of the body to another. The hands, on the contrary, have some very sensitive points.
- The outer part of the elbow, or rather the inner crease of the arm, is a place with increased sensitivity to light touches. The most brutal tactics go unanswered. You can move from this place on the wrist with your fingertips back and forth.
- The area between the middle finger and the ring finger. Many guys react to her touch by stroking the penis.
- The inside of the palm and fingertips are also very sensitive to gentle touches from hands, lips and warm breath.
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Have you ever thought that a man's legs are not involved in arousal and are only needed for support during intercourse? You were very wrong! Legs, it turns out, are a real erogenous crater! The interlacing of toes, the gentle stroking of heels and feet puts their owner in more than a high mood.
The hollow under the knee is another erogenous zone for arousing a man with his hands. The stroke, the light touches, the pressure turn the boys on wildly.
The connection of the torso and thighs is full of nerve endings, which makes it possible to classify this area on a man's body as very erogenous. Caressing your hip bones with your fingers can make a guy shiver with pleasure.
Anal hole
Many men do not allow a woman to enter this area at gunpoint, because they are embarrassed or afraid to create the image of a person focused on their kind. And nature made it very erogenous! Stroking the anus inside and out turns him into any man. The main thing is to relax. Gentle caressing of the anal ring with the tips of the fingers gives the boy the right mood. If you want, you can put your fingers in the ass and feel the most sensitive points there with maximum response to passionate calls. We have already written about how to do this in an article on how to convince your husband to have strap-on sex - read on.
Cock and scrotum
And the main dish is, of course, manhood! Stroking the testicles with your hands (pulling, squeezing, fingering), masturbating the penis and touching the skin in the area between the anus and the genitals can result in swollen ejaculation. It all depends on your skills.
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How to properly caress the penis with your hands to excite a guy
To properly excite a man with your hands, you need to know how to handle his penis. Some girls are sure that swinging up and down and smoothing the foreskin is quite enough for a fascinating sensation. They are very wrong. You should know how to treat a penis, and no less carefully than a woman's vagina.
Proper grip
There are several basic ways to capture a penis.
- The traditional option is a fist grip, in which the movements can be translational "up and down", or they can mean rotation in a spiral.
- We press the head above with the thumb, and the rest are located below.
- It is necessary to make a small ring (OK sign) from the thumb and forefinger, connecting them and undoing your fist (see the picture below).
- If you lubricate your hands first, it will be easy to excite a man. The fist in the opposite position (you should see the back of the hand and the thumb pointing at the woman) should move as if it is pressing on the penis.
Caresses with fingers and hands
To increase the sensations of a partner, a woman should take care of the warmth of her hands in advance. Using any technique of gripping the penis, stimulating a man with warm hands, you can quickly reach orgasm. But you should not overheat the scrotum. There is nothing good about boys' health.
Some representatives of the stronger sex like it when a woman hits the shaft with the phalanges of the fingers. It is best to do this while imagining that you are playing the guitar, so as not to visually scare your partner with sweeping movements.
A man feels a special sensation when his penis is caressed by the hands of two ladies at once. We place the dignity between the palms without bending the fingers. We move up and down slowly and smoothly, touching the head with the thumb of one hand and making circular movements.
If your partner has a large amount of foreskin, take it out differently: you don't need to go to the base, instead, perform squeezing manipulations towards the head. Under the skin, the main erogenous zone - the head of the penis - is caressed, and due to the fact that the caresses are carried out indirectly, there is no risk of erasing it. Men with such a build come off glowing from such techniques!
It is important not to forget about the impact of the testicles. The effect of simple massage movements will not only provide excitement, but also bring health: you can avoid problems with potency in adulthood by regularly caressing and cooking the testicles. Take them in your hands, hold them, squeeze them, pull them slightly to the side or down (slightly! this is not a wrist extender! ), then start massaging the base of the penis in a circular motion and touch the testicles randomly.
An unusual caress with a nail plate, which should be drawn along the shaft and along the scrotum, will add spice and increase the effect of the whole process.
After the man is very excited, you can move on to more daring experiments. To continue, the girl must rub her lips on her partner's penis and make sliding movements without penetrating the vagina.
Combining the proposed techniques with a high-quality block will help surprise your man and bring him to ecstasy in a few minutes! In fact, there are no hard and fast rules on how to properly excite a man with your hands. To achieve harmony, examine his body centimeter by centimeter and monitor his reaction.
Some tips on massage techniques
We told you how to prepare a man for sex and arouse him as much as possible, but you want to make a signature feature so that he is completely and irreversibly hooked. Let's try to get past the potential rivals and find that anchor to put it on like a dope!
- Always lubricate your hands with oil or cream to ensure smooth movement. Slipping turns men on.
- Apply pressure, caress, gently squeeze the muscles and be sure to pause for a few seconds. This ignites the passions a lot.
- Always start your journey from the upper body and gradually work your way down. There is no need to go directly to the genitals.
- When moving to the perineum, play with clothes or a towel spread out after the shower to create even more excitement. Put your hands in your unbuttoned pants or under a towel, massage intimately and whisper in your ear how much it turns you on.
- You can keep a commanding tone and order him to do the next minute. Even strong men get excited when a girl takes the initiative in her hands.
- Combine the strokes with each other. Let the exciting hand massage turn into a wild orgy, when the young man no longer understands where the body is and where the penis is. A wave of greed should wash over him!
- Use your chest. You can caress the penis with both palms and rest the head against the nipples. Men love to touch their breasts with an erect penis!
And the main tip is to always use the complicated Thai technique. When you have reached the main point, choose another very sensitive area and stroke it at the same time. This can be a member-anus, a member-lower back, a member-buttocks, etc. You yourself will notice what a man responds to the most. When it's over, move to another secondary area and caress nonchalantly for another 20-30 seconds, as if calming your partner down. It should not be more sensitive so as not to cause irritation. Repeat this over and over - it will become your trick.
To excite a man with your hands and bring him to orgasm, you do not need to wait for suggestions or requests from him. As a rule, representatives of the stronger sex do not hate to give the initiative in bed to their partner, counting on her lively mood and passionate temperament. Surprise and spontaneity are excellent conditions for daring experiments and 100% male arousal.
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